Why Dating Older Women Is Hot
A lot of women just don’t get it, but ask any guy who has ever dated an older woman what the attraction is, and you’ll get several different but very enlightening answers. There are some significant advantages to dating an older woman versus dating someone your own age or younger.
Less Drama!
This is a big one. Guys just don’t want to deal with all that drama, and younger women just seem to attract it like bees to honey. Guys like simplicity and value directness. They like things straightforward, up front, and easy to understand. We don’t want melodrama every other day, and we hate having to figure out what the heck women mean when they don’t say what they actually want. Older women have usually had more relationships and they’ve matured more than the women our age.
Older Women Know What They Want
Maybe this is a generalization, but older women tend to know what they want. They’re not still “finding themselves” or “evolving” at the same rapid degree younger women are. Again, there’s that maturity and experience factor at work here. They’ve lived a little, they’ve had life experiences, they’ve made mistakes, and now they have a pretty good idea of what they want. And if they want us (younger guys), that just shows how much they’ve learned and that they have pretty great taste, so why question it?
Older Women Are More Responsible
Younger, less mature women may not have steady jobs or careers and they’re often looking for someone to take care of them. They want someone to provide for them, bail them out of financial jams, and rescue them from whatever life crisis they’re going through, from having to work and be responsible for themselves, or from their own uncertainty about everything. Older women are more established, tend to have a decent job or career and maybe even a home of their own, and they aren’t so needy because they’re used to standing on their own two feet. We like that responsibility and their independence.
Older Women Are More Confident & Secure
Most guys will tell you one thing that drives them nuts about younger women or women their own age is that the are always battling with their self-esteem and seeking reassurance that they’re okay and you still love them. Hey, if you picked them and wanted to go out with them, shouldn’t that be a clue that you like them the way they are? So why are they constantly questioning themselves, fishing for compliments, and doubting themselves? Guys who date older women are happy to find that they’re usually confident about themselves and secure in who they are. They don’t need constant reassurance, and that’s a huge weight off of our shoulders. They’re also a lot less clingy.
It’s Hot & In Style Dating Older Women
Guys also think it’s just really hot to date an older woman. She’s usually more experienced sexually and knows what she wants, what she likes, and how to get it, if you know what we mean. She’s not afraid of her own sexuality either. Hey, what can we say? That’s just hot, right? And hot is always a very good thing.
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