puppyfeet asked:
Ten to twenty years ago, it was more common to see older men with much younger women. Now it seems 20-something men are seeking out 30-something women for relationships and marriage (not just hook-ups). What do you think has caused this sudden change in tides?(And believe me, I am NOT complaining! lol)
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Personally I’m looking for maturity, which usually comes with age, but I’m not looking for someone ten year older than me.
because men want a woman who is mature and has more experience and knows what she wants.
I think that women have more choices than they used to. It is easier for a woman to have her own career and not have to depend on an older man to be her meal ticket.
There was a woman sitting next to me last night while I was eating my dinner. She was not talking to me, but I heard everything that she said. She is 53 and has an account on Match.com. Most of her contacts come from men that are about 30.
Although, I never said a word to her, she kissed me on the cheek when she left.
I can see how these things happen. 8^)
Maturity usually. I have had my share of 5-6 years older to 9 years younger. They maturity definately prevails in the long run. Young and cute can only get you so far.