What’s your view on older women dating younger men???

by SajaDuarte on November 20, 2007

Older Women Dating Younger Men

shockwave asked:

There are so many people who are against this but if both are well above thirty is it still wrong?
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{ 37 comments… read them below or add one }

jargent100 November 21, 2007 at 3:05 am

My wife is six years older than I am, and we started dating when I was in my early 20s. I’m all for it.

janicajayne November 21, 2007 at 10:50 am

As long as they are both over 18, I don’t care what they do.

Steve November 21, 2007 at 9:48 pm

Its great, if both want to do it why not?

jasonlai73 November 22, 2007 at 10:13 am

If you are looking at long term then the answer is no.

sj November 23, 2007 at 11:28 pm

every one is free to date any one s/he likes. heart has no mind!

Luck Be A Lady November 25, 2007 at 6:25 am

I’m all for it! I told my husband (jokingly) that I need to trade him in for a 20 something year old…… I don’t think he liked that too much.

Cheryl V November 27, 2007 at 1:59 pm

If you are above 30
no.
But if you are 40 and he is 20
WELL
How would you like your
20 yr old son dating a woman
twice his age???

needhelp27 November 29, 2007 at 8:42 pm

noooooooo i say if you are over the states legal age for an adult then its fine my husband is 4 years younger then me…….not a big gap but its there. and my sons dad was 9 years older then me…..

elurle December 1, 2007 at 2:31 pm

Why are you posting this so many times and I think you’re wrong that there are “so many people who are against this”.

El Maestro December 3, 2007 at 3:28 am

i think its grate…i mean..if the lady is too old then no..but if im 18 and the lady is pamela andreson’s age and is pamela anderson..i would be very happy to be dating her…oh yea ;)

cdani425 December 5, 2007 at 4:59 pm

Great and fine, as long as no fricken COUGAR goes after MY man! haha

urstruly8604 December 8, 2007 at 1:21 pm

nah, to each their own. Whatever makes you happy.

belle December 9, 2007 at 10:43 pm

I don’t personally date younger men, but I think it’s fabulous that people are willing to step past social boundaries that don’t serve any real purpose

John D December 12, 2007 at 9:02 pm

I have no proplem with it no one knows what tomorror holds
for us if I was single and loved an older women I would not care what anyone else had to say.

me1c01ciz December 14, 2007 at 4:03 pm

Actually, those people against it because they think is wrong to dating older women. As long as both parents love each other, there nothing to worry about.

beachqueen December 15, 2007 at 9:46 pm

WHAT???? MEN HAVE BEEN DOING THIS SINCE ADAM AND EVE . THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT IT’S ABOUT TIME. WHAT IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE. AND AGE IS JUST A NUMBER . GO FOR IT YOU ARE AN ADULT.

Kona Cutie 33 December 16, 2007 at 11:20 pm

It all depends on the people involved. I am dating a man 10 years younger than me and I really don’t even notice the age difference. It depends on maturity levels and where you’re at in life. I know a lot of men the same age as my boyfriend who are very immature. It really just depends on the individual circumstances. I have a friend whose husband is 15 years older than her and they get along great and have been married for almost 10 years now.

gcocoaqueen35 December 17, 2007 at 7:30 am

As and older woman in my 30s I have dated younger guys and truthfully some of them have treated me better than men my age and that’s sad. Age ain’t nothing but a number so if you find someone and they make you happy, who cares. Just make sure they are legal.

rollingsaab December 19, 2007 at 9:43 pm

i think its awkward

j-girl December 22, 2007 at 2:30 am

there is nothing wrong with that…..everyone else needs to find something to whine about…

sckrchikita December 23, 2007 at 3:34 pm

I think it’s fine for women to date younger men. If he really loves you and is perfect for you, why should it matter what age he is? It’s kinda like the thought that a guy shouldn’t date a girl taller than him. True love should defeat all, including looks.

Diane D December 24, 2007 at 8:28 pm

GO FOR IT!!!!

Rebecca H December 27, 2007 at 12:58 pm

I was on a date with a man who was ten years older than me.
He took me to his houseboat after our fancy dinner/date. I guess he expected me to stay the night…to sleep with him. That’s when I asked him if I could call my Daddy…..he got me home home quicker than a Bumble Bee sucking bad pollen.

Vivi December 30, 2007 at 12:41 am

my view is the older women has every right to date anyone she wants. the younger man has a mind and a mouth and a heart to make his own choice too. dating is meant to be fun. luck to those who find it.

Moemi January 1, 2008 at 1:12 am

Age simply documents the remaining longevity of one’s physical body. Spiritually, however, two people may relate wonderfully, and yet be differing in age by quite a few years.

Angelina 777 January 3, 2008 at 4:12 pm

Go for it !

amd m January 4, 2008 at 7:47 am

I like it and I’m willing to try it …..I hope to find my older women date :O)

old dick withers January 4, 2008 at 3:44 pm

my wife is 55 yrs older than me, but then she is a millionaire many times over

Vijay January 7, 2008 at 8:23 am

It depends on maturity levels and where you’re at in life. I know a lot of men the same age as my boyfriend who are very immature. It really just depends on the individual circumstances. I have a friend whose husband is 15 years older than her and they get along great and have been married for almost 10 years now.

sraj26 January 9, 2008 at 11:11 pm

love is blind.
every thing is fair in love and war
there is no age of love and no restriction. once u fall in love who care who is old or younger,

curvaceous cutie January 13, 2008 at 12:25 am

well if every one involved are consenting adults and no teacher/student sex going on then it’s nobody’s business. Have fun!

walter c January 16, 2008 at 11:05 am

Their is no reason for any one to judge
who can date who as long as they are of the consent age no real problems.
Due you realize being A man and dateing A older woman how much you can learn from her? I mean come on now
men due not know much about how to satisfy A womans desire’s A older woman could give A younger man the world called women and be A god their. the same is true with younger women and older men teaching that young woman the how tos. it is all B.S OUT DATED TABOO Garbage

Trini_Baby January 17, 2008 at 5:41 am

i dont c anything wrong with it

Sarah January 17, 2008 at 7:35 pm

I dont think age should matter if you are both legal. Do what makes you happy:)

Kemo January 19, 2008 at 3:26 am

It’s not a wrong at all. Never has been and never will be. Whether above or below 30.

oceanbreeze January 19, 2008 at 11:49 pm

never!especially if they are in love!

marlene g January 22, 2008 at 2:26 pm

i think its not right , older woman gonna get older faster than the young guy. i will never go out with a guy whos younger than me cause he will look like a baby next to me. but love goes that way you nver know what u will get, i think a older woman has more expirience it depents , well look it this way he will take care of her when she is older, i think a young guy and older woman does not look right. i dont like young guys. i always go out with guys older than me. iam 31 and my boyfriend is 45, every one says he is to old 4 me . but i ratter like it this way.

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