I’ll tell you this – to date a cougar you’ve better have your A game on men. Mature, sexy, successful women are tired of the "same ole", "same ole" from men. Look to dazzle her and make sure that you keep the romance at a maximum. Just because a women is more mature and sophisticated, doesn’t mean chivalry has gone out the door.
For starters let me fill you in on some tips before you decide to step your big toe in for a test into the world of
dating a cougar!1. don’t worry about her falling in love with your good looks and charming one liners – been there done that.
2. don’t worry, she’s not looking to marry you even though you think you have what it takes to be her new "dude".
3. don’t be surprise if she’s the first one out when waking up.
4. you’d better listen if she ask you to do something or tells you something of importance
5. don’t play your usual head games that you normally do with your younger dates, because she probably played them, experienced them and did them herself way before you knew what anything about the opposite gender.
In short, I write this because there have been a few dates in which I have been on and the guy totally thinks that he’s going to be different and be the one who’s calling the shots. It’s ok if that what you want to do, just be prepared for the other party to be gone and not listening any crap that seems to be getting deeper and deeper by the moment.
