You’ve seen it in hollywood with today’s latest stars dating and marrying men much younger than them. So does this relationship trend of older women younger men dating have "legs"?

Apparently so, but hollywood has put cougar dating on the map in general society. You don’t have to be Madonna, Demi Moore or Mariah Carey to be a cougar! Yes ladies, it is happening all over the U.S. and probably the world as sophisticated older women are looking to actively date younger men and not just for the obvious reasons I might add.

Mature women have seen almost everything from lying cheating spouses to being mentally and physically abused men that have constantly preyed on women for years. These men who were supposedly more mature than the women that they dated, posed as being established, polished and knowing how to treat a women.

We were also flattered that an "older man" was interested in us.

We’re all past that now, and mature women are looking for younger men to date to have fun. We don’t need a man to necessarily be well established as most women that are cougars, already have this.

Older women looking to date younger men are looking for flitatious fun along with a young man who is confident in himself, but not overbearing. Many cougars won’t put up with overbearing, egotistical men who need to be in full control over them.