? Wild Thang asked:
There is 19 years difference between me & my wife so I’d like to hear from the ladies or the guys either one with your opinions.In your opinion, how old or how big of a age span is the acceptable limit given everyone is above the age of around 30?
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The relationship is between 2 adults. Whatever works for them.
Age is a number, nothing else, as long as they are both adults.
It seems to me that EVERYONE wants a young, white, woman, even some of the young, white, women. If they have them for a choice , what difference are a few young men gonna make?
im only 14, but i seriously doesnt think it matters (as long as, like you said, your above 30). As long as its not, like 50 yrs or anything. my mom and step dad are about 12 yrs apart….anyway, dont let people tell you its nasty to have a 19 year gap between u and your wife
ooooo…burn….
i’m only 22 :-/…i like older men… :-/
Whatev’ im a lesbian.
as long as they are of age the sky is the limit.
I don’t have a problem with it. I am 23 years old, and I think that love doesn’t come in numbers. You cant choose who you love. I think the age difference is something that SOCIETY has placed on people, and its not actually something that PEOPLE have placed on PEOPLE. I think it rocks! I have actually dated men who were MUCH older than I am, as well as men who were MUCH younger than I am. I really don’t see the problem with it. As long as they are both adults, and can handle some of the backlash that may accompany a relationship in that context, then that is fine. And when I say backlash, I am talking about other people looking funny, and saying snide remarks about the relationship. When I was with my ” younger” boyfriend at the time, I had a couple of really jealous females say to us “Oh, is that your Mom?” I hardly look like anyone Mom, nor am I one. I have had to deal with several incidents because of the simple fact that my bf at the time was a little younger than me. I just say forget them. If you love someone, then you love the whole person, including their age.