Older Women Dating Younger Men: Can It Work?

There is no reason why it can’t. But if your concerns are more with age, than it will matter. Of course we are talking about two adults who are of age. Nothing that would get you arrested of course.

Being an older woman dating a younger man seems to create some sort of taboo lifestyle. In fact in a recent survey, over one-third of that survey which was about 50,000 women, said they are attracted and would be open to dating a man 10 years younger than her. There is a suspicion that that number would be higher had we lived in a society which was more receptive of such dating practices.

Initial yes, when a woman searches out specifically for a younger man, it usually the assumption that it is just for a physical relationship. Younger man equals supposedly more fun and greater vitality, which is what a recent 40 something year old, recently divorced woman is looking for.

Nothing serious,just fun. But can it work? The simple answer to that question is yes. Sure initially we look at the aspect of having fun and and having great sex with a younger man, but after that, it depends if both parties are looking for something deeper.

In another words, it goes back to some of the basic methods of finding a person whom you can be compatible with. Does age matter? No, unless your just looking for sex. This equation isn’t complicated at all, but we women like to think it is.

“How will it look” or “will others think he’s my son instead of my lover”, or whatever it is. It would be wise just to place age aside and focus on what makes you happy and if you are actually compatible with the younger man whom you are thinking of having a relationship with!

Yes, for some of the younger cougars who have live in children, than this can create a sense of secrecy or a caution for their sake. But keeping an open line of communication with them, can help ease the transition to having another special person in your life. Easy, no. But doable, yes.

So before you going back out to the dating world and in this case, looking for a younger man, think first of what your objective will be when you start dating. Make sure your mindset is clear on what it is your are trying to do when you go back into dating again.

Also keep an open mind about things. No matter how you prepare for something, life has a funny way of throwing in surprises that you’ve never expected!

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Linda Hogan: The Newest Celeb To Turn Cougar!

Linda Hogan, the recently divorced wife of Hulk Hogan, was seen in Las Vegas’s Palm’s Hotel with her new younger man that she is currently dating. That man is 19 year old Charlie Hill, former high school classmates of both Brooke Hogan and Nick Hogan, siblings of Linda and the Hulkster.

Around the “blogosphere” Linda seems to be generating the brunt of the blame here. But from a woman’s perspective, there are two sides to any arguments.

Hulk Hogan, is in fact now dating his daughter’s girlfriend as a steady fling. But the common message which seems to be misunderstood is that both aren’t looking for a serious relationship after an obvious hurtful breakup.Linda is still torn over her son’s recent sentencing to prison for an auto accident that injured another person in that accident, is probably acting out of emotions as much as other emotonally feelings that she is suffering from.

Hulk, who is probably equally devasted and distraught, is probably just as confused and filled with emotions as his now ex-wife feels. It is obvious that it has turned their once normal family life into what is now considered to a soap opera.

But getting back to Linda Hogan dating a younger man. From a women’s perspective, that’s what being a cougar is all about. Having fun, with a younger more energetic man that can satisfy what she is looking for right now. Nothing serious, just pure fun. This is what most cougars are in search of.

Now of course, she probably could have used better judgment in selecting a younger man, and probably someone that didn’t go to high schook with her kids, but I guess that’s what makes her happy.

She was spotted going to a club inside  Las Vegas’s Palm’s Hotel with young mister Hill. Do you think she went overboard and went too young? Let us know by posting!

Ladies, let’s keep in mind one thing. We can have fun, and enjoy being a sophisticated, mature woman, and be selective in who we date. Granted, we might not all have the spotlight placed on us as did Linda Hogan in this story, but good judgement always helps! There are plenty younger men in their late 20’s and 30’s that can satisfy our cravings for fun and romance, without totally going ballistic!

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